Bah. Spend decades demonizing boys for being boys, rewarding them for becoming pillow-clutching pansies, and then bitch because you’re surrounded by pillow-clutching pansies? It’s not that complex, lady.

Tomi Lahren is right. Many men today are soft because they grew up without strong male role models. I am sharing teachings on being a man in talks and in my book Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants: Timeless Wisdom on Being a Man as the frustration that women, such as Tomi, feel with these men can lead to painful breakups. I have seen how men learning the teachings that fathers and other older male role models used to teach younger men can eliminate this frustration and save marriages and relationships.