Girls read magazines like Self, about how to improve themselves in order to be more attractive to us. What a deal!
Gwyneth Paltrow, in the manner typical of celebrities, cranked out her own cookbook, My Father’s Daughter, and got right to work promoting her book with a cover shot, photo spread, recipes, and lifestyle tips in the May issue of Self.
You would think the ladies would be grateful for the inspirational advice, but Gwyneth’s somewhat self-congratulatory homily actually seems to have lit Ursula Hennessey‘s fuse.
[C]heck out this article about Gwyneth Paltrow and her fitness. Or, I should say, her mommy fitness.
Iâ€™ve found what works for me. I know if I put in an hour and a half, five days a week, Iâ€™m good. If Iâ€™m on vacation and, like, â€œ[Expletive] it, Iâ€™m not working out,â€ I know what to do when I get back. A lot of women think, â€œOh, my God, I could never get there,â€ but I donâ€™t think thatâ€™s true. Itâ€™s simply relative to how much you put into it.’
â€¦’It’s not an accident. It’s not luck, it’s not fairy dust, it’s not good genes. It’s killing myself for an hour and a half five days a week, but what I get out of it is relative to what I put into it.
…’The reason that I can be 38 and have two kids and wear a bikini is because I work my [expletive] [expletive] off.’
No fairy dust? Oh really, Gwynnie? How about the fairy dust of your birth? How about the neat coincidence of having Steven Spielberg for a godfather? How hard did you have to work for that?
How about the fact that you probably never have to vacuum your floors, Clorox your bathroom, or mingle with the plebes at Shopâ€™nStop on Saturday mornings, with one whiny-walker and another sick toddler in the cart?
Lemme guess, Gwyn, you have a little babysitting help, right? Or do Moses and Apple just sit by, calmly sharing their toys and not getting on anybodyâ€™s nerves while you work out for an hour and a half, five days a week. What mother with young children, whether she works inside the home or out of it, has a spare 7-and-a-half hours per week for sweatinâ€™ to the oldies? Thatâ€™s a full work day.
The reason you can be 38 and have two kids and wear a bikini is because (and this is just a guess because I donâ€™t know you personally) youâ€™ve never worked all that hard to get to a place where there’s piles of money for your various whims, where everyone does all the â€œickyâ€ things in life for you, and where youâ€™re able to escape on said “vacation” any time you wish. Listen, Gwyneth, it’s perfectly okay to say, “I’m grateful for all the help I have. I’m thankful for the money to be able to pay trainers, babysitters, and housecleaners. I couldn’t be a 38-year-old bikini-wearin’ mum without that.” Let’s get real.
Is Gwyneth beautiful and admirably fit? Yes. Talented? Yes.
Successful because of blue collar hard work rather than fairy dust?
I think not.
Personally, I find Ursula’s rant amusing but a bit leftish.